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so, almost a month and a half after my “best friend’s” wedding - i think i might have finally digested the whole thing. as i finally had the courage to talk to others about what had happened. i dunno if i was doing the right thing, but it was pretty natural when i first told our highschool friends what happened.

ahem, p.s. i was surprised that how both of them didn’t receive an invitation.

on a related note, i’m happy to know that Jackson is getting married. it’s funny how he called me on saturday night and asked me if i really want to attend the banquet. it was such a sweet conversation - it just brought back a bunch of great memories, numerous phone calls and some every good conversations. the way he talks is just awesome, and the sense of humour that he has is incredible!! maybe it was just fun to hear his voice after 2 long years since he left.

personal phone calls are just priceless.

today, i was working primarily in Illustrator CS 2…

as i was designing the poster for next week, my anger just grew! all those unfriendly emails and messages! especially his comment on how the design looks nice because the font is pretty! it made me mad, very mad.

so then i got this very cranky message about NOT being able to help someone for her own thing this weekend.

to me, it is completely ridiculous and irresponsible. it’s not like we’re working on a group project or something, it’s your own thing. you can totally complain to others if all of us are working on a project together, and you ended up working on it all by yourself.

but this is not the case! you can’t just go and blame others for not helping. i dun think anyone else other than yourself is responsible for your stuff. especially when you are asking for others’ favour, the other side can refuse your request by any means.

and then if you needed help so desperately, please consider other communication channels, there are more than just emails. oh, and please list your “conditions” if needed, dun complain to others if you have a special deadline that everyone needs to commit to.