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Just did a quick 5-minute quiz on colorquiz.com, I think the results are quite accurate!

Your Existing Situation
The situation is difficult and you are trying to persist in your objectives against resistance. You find it necessary to conceal your intentions as an added precaution, in order to disarm the opposition.

Your Stress Sources
The existing situation is disagreeable. You feel lonely and uncertain as you have an unsatisfied need to ally yourself with others whose standards are as high as your own, and want to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to your self-sufficiency because of the restraint you normally impose on yourself. Since you want to demonstrate the unique quality of your own character, you try to suppress this need for others and affect an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal your fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize your behavior with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference you really long for the approval and esteem of others.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Circumstances are restrictive and hampering, forcing you to forgo all joys and pleasures for the time being.

Your Desired Objective
Long for tenderness and for a sensitivity of feeling into which you can blend. Responsive to anything esthetic and tasteful.

Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of your hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. You are trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting yourself from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation.

Your Actual Problem #2
Want to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem.

You are an independent person, and you stand by what you believe in. You have an innovative nature. You have a lot of confidence in yourself and you have a lot of qualities that make you a great leader.

- from a facebook app called “Personality”.

I did the “What’s Your Personality Type” test again today. At first I didn’t remember I already did it once before, after I got the results – I noticed the results looked very familiar. As a matter of fact, I already posted it here once before – quite funny! Ok, I didn’t change much over the past 4 months then: I am still an ISTJ.

What’s Your Personality Type?

I’m not a business executive, accountant, or lawyer though.

婷婷 send 咗個九種人格的測驗嚟玩，我玩中文同英文嘅版本時候，結果唔同喎… 咁到底我係咩人格呀？又話得一種人格係主導嘅？我玩兩個都得到多個兩個主導性格喎, 到底點㗎？

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After the long discussion with TingTing, I start to wonder more and more about the way I approach problems, or basically, how I think.

So I did the Myers-Briggs Personality Type test once more, I already did it once couple months ago… interestingly, this time I am a different “type”. I am guessing TingTing might have just helped me understand myself a little more because this time I actually gave some of the questions a second thought. I am not sure if it’s really more accurate, but let’s just keep this on file.

This time, according to this test, I am an INTJ:

• moderately expressed introvert (42%)
• moderately expressed intuitive personality (25%)
• distinctively expressed thinking personality (62%)
• very expressed judging personality (78%)

Description:

• The Portrait of the Mastermind Rational (iNTj)
• Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Judging

According to this test: quizfarm.com/test.php?q_id=142512, I have mysterious eyes…

You have Mixed eyes.When ppl look into your eyes they are confused.No one quite knows what your thinking.Alot of the time your thinking of more than one thing.You are difficult to read.Mysterious.

Am I a type A or a type B? As it turns out, I am a ISTj, according to this site.

What is an ISTj anyway? They call this type of people an inspector – details can be found here and here.

i usually barely share my personal thoughts with many people. like everyone, i only share with my very close friends. however, what i found lately is that i started to share these personal feelings with people outside of my comfort zone, people other than my super close friends.

partly becos’ my issues are caused by my very good friends, so i m not completely comfortable sharing any of those thoughts with them…yet. i guess not until i m ready for it.

honestly, 90% of the time, i tried to solve any problem myself before i really talk about it with anyone. usually when i start to talk about it, i already got over it myself.

this time, it’s different, maybe because it’s something i can’t really solve by my own. so i asked for opinions and solutions. i turned to my parents, i turned to my very good friends from the other side of the world, the ones who have no connection with the group of friends i m having trouble with right now. i also turned to my colleagues. and, i turned to a friend that i know for a few years, but i wouldn’t count him as a friend: he’s more like one of those people you met at random times, i sorta keep in touch with him.. but very occasionally.

what’s interesting is that i started to share my personal feelings with him and his other friend quite a lot. i found myself telling him a lot… probably too much.

as soon as i started to look for outside opinions, i started to question myself – i started to feel bad cos’ i can tell this is a warning sign about my other friendship/social circle. i dun trust them anymore. i dun feel comfortable talking to them. i dun feel good about the whole situation at all.

having half of myself outside of my “old” comfort zone makes me wonder, is this really my comfort zone? why am i in there in the first place? well, is there really a comfort zone for me? why am i feeling a little more comfortable outside of my comfort zone? what’s wrong with all this? what does this really mean?

interestingly, he and his friend actually asked me if i still count them as my best friends? my answer was: “i dunno.” well, are they really my best friends?

am i really getting out of my comfort zone? or am i expanding it? or did i just hop to another comfort zone, and leaving that old one completely?

i know it’s not like i can weight a relationship. but part of my questions is that if i really leave this old comfort zone, and nobody cared. why on earth do i bother this much to even blog about it.

Test results from: http://www.mathsking.net/test/question.htm

This is somewhat accurate, I think…

You have 29 points. 你是第三種. 你很可愛而且每個你認識的人都喜歡你. 你是能夠成為別人最好朋友的人所以沒有人會嘗試做任何事而引致失去你. 你從不傷害別人的感覺和我很少傷到自己的感覺的. 生活對你來說是輕而易舉的. 你經常表現可愛和平靜的. 你只要避開金手指就能夠無憂無累了.