to me, it is completely ridiculous and irresponsible. it’s not like we’re working on a group project or something, it’s your own thing. you can totally complain to others if all of us are working on a project together, and you ended up working on it all by yourself.

but this is not the case! you can’t just go and blame others for not helping. i dun think anyone else other than yourself is responsible for your stuff. especially when you are asking for others’ favour, the other side can refuse your request by any means.

and then if you needed help so desperately, please consider other communication channels, there are more than just emails. oh, and please list your “conditions” if needed, dun complain to others if you have a special deadline that everyone needs to commit to.